The woman who hit my car died a couple days ago, from a stroke. She'd fallen according to the colony caretaker, who invited me over for coffee, and hit her head when she fell. She did not seek medical care, according to the colony caretaker, who lives across from her, and claimed she wanted to call the ambulance but her neighbor refused medical assistance. Shortly after that she had a stroke.
It is sad to think about. I knew she was suffering immeasurably from the suicide, at home, of a son. That's what the colony caretaker had told me. I don't know how one would live through such a thing.
I've been watching the PBS series on the Viet Nam war. Episode two followed the story of a 17 year old, who convinced his parents to sign the papers so he could enlist early. He went through training but was disappointed to be assigned as a clerk. So he purposely botched his boring supply job, just so he could go into the infantry. But it was not as he expected. His letters home became dark. His best friend was cut down by machine gun fire in front of him. He carried him out of the line of fire, risking his own life to do so, but his friend died anyway.
His mother and sister, in poignant interviews, describe their worry for him as months passed. When the mother, then the sister, describe the two soldiers coming to their door one day, to tell them their son and brother had been killed, I broke down crying. The young man was 19 when he died. I lived through that time, as a child and teen. The fear was in the air around the parents and siblings of soldiers.
The bad driver from the Albany colony street must have suffered greatly to have a son who killed himself at home.
Well these are the six cats fixed. The odd cat out is the tabby on white teen boy, found as a tiny desperate wild kitten in a car lot in Corvallis, rescued, tamed and cared for then by a friend of mine who loves cats.
Gunny, from the car lot, fixed Monday |
Dawn, mom of four teens, fixed yesterday |
Bonzai, a teen male, fixed Monday |
Belize, another teen male, fixed yesterday |
Brazil, the biggest of the four teens, a boy too, fixed yesterday |
Bombay, the only girl, fixed yesterday too |
Dawns' four black teens then went, end of day, after they were fixed, to my friend who places barn cats. Dawn came home with me, spent the night, then I took her back to the woman who feeds her. It's nice when I catch the entire group of cats at once, so no need to selectively trap for one or two later. There was a male she wanted to get done too but I'd already gotten him fixed from the other street.
Another very, very successful day. And much better lives for the cats you helped. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteSuicide haunts so many people. And leaves the family grieving forever.
I can't imagine what a mother must go through. I trapped once for a couple, whose grandson killed himself. She got up in the morning, but did not see him, then finally went to his room and there was a note. He was out in the barn. he had hung himself. They had to take down the barn because they couldn't look at it without seeing him. He was a meth addict and couldn't kick it.
DeleteSix more, yay!
ReplyDeleteYup! Yay!
DeleteWith so much pain and sadness in the world your good works are a terrific gift. So sorry you were raised in a tough situation and denied music. How is the knee? I hope you're feeling better. Be well.
ReplyDeleteThe Vietnam war was a nasty and senseless war, if there is any sense at all to any war. I really doubt young people will ever fight in such a war again. More good work done by you.
ReplyDeleteI can't see young people of today doing anything like that, especially eager to sign up by 17. My younger wanted to go so badly.
DeleteYounger brother, I meant.
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