Then when the rains come, inside they march, creating, for a time, some cat spatting over who sleeps where.
Sisters Tweetie and Button used to be in the house most of the time. However, Button got bullied by Honey and moved to sleeping in the garage cage room, with her sister. Nights they play wildly in the cat yard, wearing themselves out. Tweetie is far more social and flits about near me, craving attention. Every evening, I spend time in the cat yard, reading, taking a wand toy and treats, and play with the yard crew, who love it.
Forest too spends much of his time in the cat yard. He has many friends. Teddy and Willy Wonka are his best friends, but he has many and is well liked.
Forest gets some love from Teddy, behind him. The boys are best friends. |
Forest is a beautiful boy. |
Sam is in and out, ever the gadfly and he has some sort of attraction surrounding him. All the other cats want to be near him. And yet often he is just plain mean to his fan base.
Juno adores him, but puts up with his bouts of evil better than the others. Jade follows him around, wanting love. She has lately paired off with Calamity, who is ecstatic to have a close friend. When Sam went after the lovely natured Jade, Teddy quickly stepped in to comfort her slicing Sam with shameful looks for his behavior.
Sam goes after Jade, who just loves him. She is forced to defend herself. Teddy stepped in, to defend her, then gave Jade head butts and grooming. Teddy likes peace. Sam likes to stir things up. |
Mums is Sam's constant companion. Forest and Teddy love him but know enough to watch for his mood swings.
Sam |
I don't tolerate bullying. They get a time out and a stern lecture. They want to please me, so they shape up. You don't let behaviors go that you don't want to become accepted. It's work, but worth it.
I also find more discontent if they don't get enough attention or play or if they are having hairball issues. Who isn't cranky when constipated?
The oldsters, Vision and Miss Daisy, are like puppies, and follow me around every waking moment, which also is a challenge sometimes, because the other cats also want attention. But it's all part of the job description---cat clan kingpin, that's me. Ha.
You are right.
ReplyDeleteJazz n Jewel are not friends. Mainly because Jazz is a bully. But they need each other. They go out separately, and look for each other. And if one of them comes in before the other, the first won't settle.
I hear you on the following front too. Someday I will be able to go to the toilet alone.
Antagonists, eh? But cannot without each other. I've known people like that. Would it not be nice, to settle in, in the bathroom, alone, with a magazine? Fat chance. Dream on.
DeleteWe had 3 cats... none of whom liked the others. But all 3 slept with us, often their backs would be touching but nobody would ever admit it. It was so interesting to watch how carefully they avoided interacting with each other. I miss my life with cats, but our lifestyle now just wouldn't work.
ReplyDeleteThere are lots of differences with cats. I can't imagine being an adult shelter cat, used to a good life, with former owner, then adopted by more of a white trash type owner, whose house is filthy, cats not flea treated, crappiest food out there, dirty water, being yelled at and maybe living with other cats born to that life, without manners or hygiene. It may sound silly, but cats are just as different as humans are, and grow familiar with certain living conditions that as an adult, it's hard to think of living otherwise. Not every cat will like every other cat, just like we don't like every human and couldn't live with most others.
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